Why Do I Do What I Do?
The Invisible Threads: Purpose, Security, and Expression
Purpose: The Compass of Meaning
Security: The Foundation for Growth
Expression: The Need to Leave Your Mark
Achieving Congruence: The Integration of All Three
The Core Drivers Beneath Your Actions
The Bigger Picture: Your Personal Narrative
The Unseen Architect: How Your Story Shapes Your Core Drivers
The Scarcity Narrative: Driving the Need for Security
Reshaping the Narrative: From Fixed Story to Conscious Choice
Why This Reflection Matters
The Transformative Benefits of Clarity
Final Thought: The Journey of Alignment
Why you might stay in your current job for so long
Why Do I Work in My Current Job for So Long?
Signs It’s Time to Reevaluate
Why Do I Want to Succeed in Anything I Do?
success is rarely just about the surface-level reward. It’s deeply tied to your identity—to who you believe you are, and who you want to become.
Discovering Your Personal Drivers and Values
What frustrates you the most in situations or people?
What kind of legacy do you want to leave?
Bringing It All Together
What Are Your Core Drivers?
Do you feel energized when you’re learning something new?
Do you feel most fulfilled when your work or actions benefit others?
Do you feel anxious in uncertain situations?
Do you feel energized by new experiences?
Do you feel energized when people recognize your contributions?
Do you feel most fulfilled when you’re connected deeply with others?
Which Drivers Are Strongest for You Right Now?
Final Thought: Drivers Aren’t Fixed
Your drivers can shift over time.
Step 3: Aligning Your Actions is where the real transformation begins
Why Alignment Matters
Step-by-Step Process for Aligning Your Actions
Misalignments aren’t failures—they’re signals. They point you toward what needs to change
Balance comes from honoring all your needs, not ignoring one in favor of another
Life is dynamic—so realignment is a continuous practice
Here’s an in-depth exploration of what we learn by asking reflective questions about ourselves
Why Asking Reflective Questions Matters
By identifying our core values, we create an internal compass
Final Thought: Reflection Is a Lifelong Practice
Why Is Ongoing Reflection Important?
Reflection Keeps Pace with Growth
The Power of Self-Awareness
Making Reflection a Lifelong Habit
Final Reflection: A Commitment to Yourself